They do it as an insult. This is not for you my dear you need to find a man who wants you 100%, and will love you for and not play games like this. The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. But to sum it all up. Yet he got another girl pregnant and had two kids from her. On another note, my bd cheated and had a bust-it-baby at the end of our relationship. Because no matter who he or I wind up with, they will have to know that we are bonded for life. When she gets older she'll catch on how he treats you and think that's the way things are supposed to be. Said my mind's gone half crazy (Yeah) 'cause I can't leave you alone (And I just don't know) And I'm wonderin' if it's worth me holdin' on (I said I just don't know what to do now . There is also the respect factor when deals with another man's kids. And no woman do not always love or care for the unwanted sperm donor. If he feels a need to talk in secret to his baby mama without your knowledge, then there's more going . She isnt his ex. Does he drink socially or in the evening? It's not fricken normal, everything else in our relationship is perfect, he's loving, caring, romantic, I am the complete opposite of that "woman" I work, look after myself, I'm supportive and caring, yet this continues to happen, I just don't understand it! At the end of the day, he is obviously not happy but he does not love you anymore than he loves her. Bf's baby mama wants him back and she's trying all the means to get him back. What I don't understand is why she calls him in the middle of the night for I was awake and i'm pretty sure it was the name of his female coworker. If you the blueprint then why isn't he with you? Distance is the biggest enemy when in a fight, and has been translated as the widening of a wedge. Unless baby daddy is a prize husband and father, I'd stop worrying about him and his ex. but had you been on birth control he wouldn't have been able to "trap" you as you call it. He ate up all the soap. I don't wish it would've worked out. That's because in order to have a healthy relationship with his mom, your guy has to have some boundaries. I told him if you have a comment or concern or question about our son send me an email otherwise do not co tact me. This is a clear signal that he's really into you, wants a relationship, and is showing it by calling you baby. He even had me in his phone as "babymomma". These men are confusing. I have been playing both roles as mother and father for the past 16 years taking the responsibility financially, physically, and emotionally. My bd used to make females think I was this horrible monster because he was locked up due to putting his hands on me at 8 months pregnant. I never re-married but over the years have needed his input with our children. If he did call you mama because he is attracted to you then it would be likely that he would show signs of attraction in his body language and behavior which could include: There are more signs of attraction that a guy might show you that get talked about, in an ebook, here. They made all these promises to each other. Based on what you have said, it appears that you may be an unknowing other woman. Today we talk to two women to hear about their crazy baby mama stories -- women who have been manipulated, schemed, and plotted against simply . I'm not no saint but I've never cheated! As a step mom I believe it is my duty to take his kids in like my own. Girls that go with so called divorced guys make me sick their as **** as a brick and its embarrassing! The person who posted on here earlier this year. I have an amazing life. No need to take it personally. Have a talk with him and get him to talk to her about her calling all hours of the day and night as if they are still together. How is that possible when I dont know the girl who knows your wife? He tried to eat the bathtub But it wouldn't go down his throat. u know the situation n if u c u can't handle this then move on. Maybe this whole love thing isn't for me! No, a man does not increase feelings because you have saddled him with an obligation he didnt plan on. The difference between me and most men is that i learned from my mistakes. I don't know what to do. Click to reveal Would any of your bona fide exes buy you an apartment? You can read more about me and my website here. If she tries to use the child against him, there are legal steps he can take. In No Contact phase with married man, but what now? I assume the alleged ex is not a U.S. citizen or permanent resident? Now he goes out at night with this girl and in his phone talking to 3 more . 15 His Communication With Her Is Different From Other Friends. 9. Many said no because the mancomes as a packaged deal with childandpossible drama with the childs mother. I really don't give two craps about the father of my daughters. Sometimes it makes me think something is wrong with me because you can do so much for someone and still they do you wrong . should i just cut the relationship short?. You sound like you have other problems that need your attention. He did! Body Language Central IS A PARTICIPANT IN THE AMAZON SERVICES LLC ASSOCIATES PROGRAM. I would not continue this relationship. Constantly brings up his BM on random conversations but doesn't get why I get upset. The love of your life is still sleeping with his Baby Mama. Im talking to a guy that he has 2 kids with his high school sweetheart, he said he is divorced and when I asked him you still love her? It may sound petty, but he made me mad one day and I told her, and of course, she believed him when he denied it . Hey , I'm female currently dealing with a sitution with a guy I knew for about three years. Ladies if he does and doesnt provide in any way..he is not the one! Our biggest issue is that he's allergic to my cat. But there is way too much conflict between my ex and I as he cannot follow court orders yet blames me for the conflict for holding him accountable with motions to show cause. If he doesnt follow through with setting boundaries with his baby mama, then he's a ****. I just have on question can my spouse has kids from a previous relationship( has to Baby mama's ) and they call him he hold conversations with them I don't know if it's about the kids because he will say things like yea she called me earlier today talking about this and that but if it was my daughter father calling me it's a problem but you can hold full blown conversations with both you bm's not to mention his 11 yrs older then me at times I don't know what to do or say to him without sounding childish or ridiculous but I hate the feeling that he's doing things behind myou back. Or maybe hes been engaging in inappropriate behavior with the mother of his child on the low and thats why hes hesitant to let her know shes doing the absolute most. You need to stop listening to baby momma. This is no big deal, and you shouldn't sweat it. He said, "You don't want to keep it no way. Wooo, some you ladies need to learn the game, y'all losing. Isn't it kind of selfish to date someone when you feel this way? Its hard to sever ties because we have a kid. 1 in his life (that honor goes to his kid), he could at least make her No. 32:47. This woman also has the personality and appearance of a terminally I'll cow, she has another fatherless child from a later disastrous relationship, she's permanently unemployed & her house looks like a scene from hoarders, I told him I don't feel comfortable with it and it's completely unnecessary & swore it wouldn't happen again, then recently I discovered that after he had dropped him to school he went to her house and stayed there for 2 hours, he even called me after he left and to say see, I dropped him off at school and went straight to the gym, what the hell does this all mean? you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. He's bull****ting you. Step 1. Blogging about a wide range of topics to help facilitate a better future. Take it from a man. Talk to him about it. I totally agree with you! She actively tried to make his life miserable and he just wanted to never see or speak to her again, so no I wouldn't say that all guys will always love their babymamas. Idk what to do , how to feel , I love this man to the fullest and we have finally got worked on us , she was 8 month pregnant and he didn't tell me . Sick of dudes acting like women just go crazy for no reason - yea right! We hadn't had sex for 3 weeks because he'd come home from "work" and sleep on the couch. However, the difference is she knew he had a fiance, she was just living in hope that she's never make it over to England, because it took about 3 years. when a man have a kid(s) with his ex(s) they are a package deal.if u want to be with him, u have to be supportive n understanding and don't stress him out cuz he is not giving u enough time.this can lead to fights n eventually a break up. Please Help. We wanted to make sure that his kids were secure and settled before we took the big step. If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). III. Take for example. Where i tell the woman i choose to mess with the truth of how i feel. Trust your instincts. Fortunately for me, he was someone who told her not to bother him unless it has to do with the kids and it was urgent. I will never let my daughter go through that I went through ever . In any case, don't give him that attention. Maybe he wants that attention and your attention. But now it's come to a point where I love her soo much that I actually hate her!! Bridget Yvonnel. Remember that communication is essential to . should I stay with or leave him. That makes you the side chick. I feel like I am [his second choice] but he tells me that he loves me and that I'm his one and only. Meeting his family doesn't mean anything. If something happened to him I would be sad for MY DAUGHTER. Miss Lucy called the lady with the alligator purse. i ahte when they text late at night or just text when its not about the kid. 28:31. Once I forgave, the other I could not. Whether or not he is married to her, YOU are his second choice, she and the baby take priority here. When his male friend from work calls, your boyfriend has no problem taking the call in front of you. I still have the desire that I want my family back together. Why? Oct 29, 2013 at 11:36 AM. Everyone has made bad choices at some times in their lives, but the consequences of some bad choices are much more serious and far-reaching than the consequences of other bad choices. Sorry for cursing. I'm in this same situation. Stepmother Calls Fixer, He Fucks Mommy Hard. It depends some people always have that love and some people don't. If it was about the kids I can understand, but no it's either about how her hair dresser messed up her hair, or about some stupid stuff. If this is the case, then its a good thing! Why do u think he's doing this family thing all of a sudden. Why would he call me sis? If your boyfriend is still communicating daily with the woman who gave birth to his child, it is reasonable to be concerned that he is still associated with her in some manner. Birth control is readily available. Apparently he travels a lot working, leaving little time for him to spend with his son. So what, am I not supposed to answer?. He started this blog to help others find and define their own self development journey. Roommate Doesnt Want My Boyfriend Coming Over? you need to talk to him and tell him that you feel disrespected. We add new porn videos hourly. Because my now beautiful daughter was created in the same fashion. Body language plays a key role in our daily lives. XXX PORN. So Ms. blueprintwhy don't you do these ladies a favor and tell them you're laying up with their man. Cloudflare Ray ID: 7a2f9777ad2e87c0 He also told me at the beginning of February that he didn't want to have another kid, which was a deal breaker for me when we started dating because he knew I wanted more, but that he couldn't take care of the ones he has so this was why he changed his mind. Check Yourself. Because I don't entertain drama. Your bm had a profound effect on you. But maybe that might change since he wants to be civil he wants to be happy . Or is it a real problem? She says she will always love me no matter what but she never admits anything even when I came to get my son and a random guy is in her house with his shirt off walking out the bedroom. Hes not a bad guy to be honest but something is off. He is a cake eater. He called one Friday night after a few drinks and said he was coming over. He has broken so many promises to our daughter. Spanish term. They would call and put the baby on the phone then the baby dont want to talk so they jumps on the phone 1 min after he answers its a game of them wanting to talk to him and uses the child to get to him. He said he told her its over and the only time she must call him is about the baby, but she keeps calling and texting. Be it though I was in a relationship myself at the time with my other two children father. This post will help you understand why he called you mama and help you understand why other guys would call you mama in the future. And i always gave in because i love him. My exam has been in a relationship with the woman he cheated on me with for about two years. We could hang out for hours and not say a word n we would both be happy jst enjoying each other's company! He is being romantic. I think people often underestimate how big of a deal it really is to have a child with someone especially if you have that child with someone you dont plan on staying in a romantic relationship with. He says she's very confrontational and he doesn't want drama . Just know that you are perfectly fine. Whenever you get called mom, guy's are insinuating that you're treating them like their mom does. Fast forward 2 weeks later, he was calling my phone to get some. He is cheating on her by seeing you. The Mother and the child are coming from Honduras and so they have to stay with him in his house because they have no where to go. Speak up, tell him how you feel and if he doesn't take a stand then you know that he really isnt worth it. By entering this site you declare Sounds like his wife is now in town. And stupid me did everything she asked. When they were together they thought they had something special like all young couples do. No. Does any of this make sense if you were truly his girlfriend and she were an ex? This is one of the reasons why the economy *****. Usually it is a term of endearment for guys that go out a lot and see beautiful women, I imagine a Latino man says it maybe but probably not a white guy. Xper 5 Age: 27. What's up with these thots on here??? Absolutely NOT! Maybe it is love seeing as how he isn't with her anymore and we are working towards make things again. To lift her self up financially so she could leave me. I'm just a honest guy who doesn't play games and I want a good woman to be with that I can trust. Ive been with this guy for approximately four months now and I feel as if hes still hung up on his sons mother. Of course, its not the only way to show that hes committed to you, but its a good start! 1. He has lied to me multiple times of his situation with the mother of his children. But if you're God then I guess not. But it's so hard , apart of me feels as if I should stay , and ever since he moved out I've seen changes , I see us , but idk bout three children. My boyfriend does that. To hit on me after 8 months of not sleeping with him and I kiss him back and now I feel.like a fool because..i know i would still sleep with him ..smh I say u left me for your ex and is engaged 6 months after you left me..he.told me once before I can't choose I said yes you can u you did already I need good advice because iam still in love with him Idk how that can be ..he hurt me bad..sorry for the long message just need some flood advice, Yeah I said same thing but i am a hypocrite because I almost slept with my sons father AND. He has his ex or is it his ex. What to Do if You Dont Like Being Called His Baby Mama. Additional troubleshooting information here. We were in an 18yr relationship which eventually ended last year. Hence the reason the discussion was so spirited when we talked about whether or not we would ever date men who have kids last month.