Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). And also my Pluto is trine his Venus. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. It's the planet of harmony, after all, and it brings harmony and luck to its house in your natal chart. Some would be uncomfortable with someone seeping into their dreams or communicating with them in the ethereal realm. My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. We have opposite rising signs. How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. Thanks for the 12th house information. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. I have also experienced it as not wanting anyone to know about the relationship or not knowing where you stand. Should I run now?? You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. Lol. For instance, my Sun and Venus land in the 12th house of my ex/long term best friend. Im sorry you went through that. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. I didnt want to talk about it untill he would be back home. Lol. Required fields are marked *. My daughter and i also have gemini mercury and my baby girl also has venus in gemini. was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? Neither did he. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. How is in your case? Not too hard for me to figure out, even though for years I was dodging it. I wish I could see your charts so I could have a better picture of this. And that he doesn't know what is good for him. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? I've been rather busy these days but am always happy to answer questions:) The 12th house is about as mysterious and the afterlife! November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27 5 Comments. It is a hard process . Her Venus is in my 12th house. I've also found when we fought and were out of touch, I could feel how upset and rattled he was when he couldn't reach me. First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. I have neptune (Sagitarius) in my 7th house with Gemini rising. But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. My 12th Houser actually taught and showed me the GEMINI IN ME that I was in denial of. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. Venus in 12th house Synastry - Lindaland - linda-goodman.com I promise you a guy who pursues you is a far, far better fit. Will you tell me what this mean in synastry? Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. But how can I be sure.. its the 12th house.. Hi everyone (waving)!! And also a lot of Saturn and Neptune going on. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". Combust! Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus How is aspected by other planets. Will this ever end!?!?? I dont have other words for that. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. My moon falls in someone's 12th house. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! Why this could be happen? You say hes your EX-best friend. I dont know despite how he treats me I just always want to help him and at the time I thought if needing space was what would help him fine but I can never seem to tell him that. We are obsessed with eachother. The North Node represents our souls goal in this l Mercury in Partners 1st house You will inspire easy communication with your partner. Synastry: Planet Overlays in Houses (Transposed Houses) Told him, but am sure he did not get it, but Im sure it made for interesting playback. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. Sun In 12th House Synastry: How It Affects You Love Life Neptune idealizes, and makes everything much more beautiful it rules feelings of ecstacy, perfection and the feelings of soulmates but he's a tricky fella once we fall from the high, it's hard to get over.It's not usually til much later we want to slap ourselves when the Neptune fog clears and reality set's in. All of the guys whom I'm involved above have stellium especially benefic planets in my 12th house. Venus-Pluto Synastry - Conjunct, Square, Trine, Opposite Venus in 10th House synastry relationships are formed in the field of business and professional life. just keep on going in the OPPOSITE direction away from me as FAR AS YOU CAN!! i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. Only because I feel his Mars in my subconscious,yelling at me to do better and not understanding that I dont respond well to that. You are probably this person's "type.". It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. His mars is in my 12th house. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. I have friends and one niece with Moon/Cancer who are entirely emotional and often easily bruised, though they hide it well under their hard, decorative shells. Maybe he bonds with us well because the three if us have gemini suns. Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. We easily know what the other needs without words. In all cases this is really karmic moment. more than likely you will see, there is a very big reason:) Often they are a teacher when it's a good person, or you have something to teach them. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. It s killing me . you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. It just went down a long and winding road until it got out of control. Thats so commendable of you to always have a welcome for him in your heart. I can feel his worries and I always know what to say. I agree with your experience. Disappointments come because we think there is something more even when the person has clearly said there's not. The 12th house has a reputation for being connected with the hidden and unseen realms that operate behind the scenes in our lives. During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen. Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. Who knows! 12th house synastry venus - bpbwmb.salesconsulter.de I trust everything happens for a reason! I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. Ive cut our contact channels. Hi GeminiRising! Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and . Double whammies. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. Ya, I think we both feel a very strange draw to the other. I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. I love him so much, I dont even know what to do with myself. You must be open and not make assumptions. Still, whenever I think about doing something new in my life, with anyone else I speak with confidence and gusto. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. after 2/3 months later i came to know that he has girlfriend somewhere in another country. The 12th house rules things. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. I still dream about them and I wonder if I bother them in their dreams toolol, I have had a short lived adventure with a man back in 2013. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. Hes not cold at all. I'm currently talking to someone where my Moon, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter fall into their 12th house. Wowza:) Mars conjunct Mars and Sun conjunct sun? My Moon quincunx his Moon. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. The twelfth house by its nature is diffuse and undefined. Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. Sometimes it's strange and you can't make sense of it. The 12th house is the house of the spirit, it's deep and mysterious, and usually where we find our guides, angels or demons. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. or I fail? My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. Thank you for any input/comments. Possibly. We are from different countries. What do you think? I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . Okay, so you're saying (as the Venus person in other people's 12th house in the past) that Aqua Venus people will make their affections quite obvious to the 12th house person? For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. thanks for visiting! Just not every second. Just give it time and have moderately high standards for yourself. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. It is also present in my relationship. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. Forum Venus in 8th house synastry Posts: 8 scorpiounique Topic starter March 7, 2022 9:36 am (@scorpiounique) Active Member Joined: 6 years ago His Pisces Venus falls into my Pisces 8th house. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. so i point it out, and im more aware. I had a very strong, sexy, DARK, dangerous and tumoultous tete-a-tete with a Sun/Gem Moon/Sag guy which put my Venus/Sag SMACK in his 12th House! He brings my daughter candy and buys her ice cream and toys. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. In fact, I was his spiritual company for more than the twenty years we spent apart. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). Orange. Its really SOMETHING, and at times its like being on a roller coaster ride. Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. Either come correct or go away. I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. Oh . However,from reading the comments here, it seems that the planet person can be just as affected as the house person. When dealing with the spirit world, there are both positive and negative, you know good and bad people and spirits. The first thing to . I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. Brrrrrrr . Any help would be greatly appreciated.p.s., any planet people willing to share their experience with their planets in someone's 12th would also be appreciated, As far as who feels what.. it would make sense they both would feel it since one persons planet is being housed ( in a environment) therefore the planet is being influenced also by the house person in their approach and the others is bringing the energy influence. Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. Love Synastry: Venus in the Houses - Crystal Life Coach You will also find you share many of the same values, interests, and likes. Venus in 12th House Synastry Overlay If your Venus is in your partner's 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. You have a tendency to fall in love with people who re not available, and . didnt dream of them either. When we are together its like time is nothing. From there on, things never became the same anymore. Lol. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? Posts: 1873. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. Im so obsessed with him. But I didn't consider him anymore. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! where is your Neptune? Such as unconditonal love, romance, spirituality, and discovering each others gifts and talents and putting them to use. but initially he said so many kind words to me. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? He said, he hadn't and he just hoped we could be good friends when he returned. I know it sounds crazy. :) Would also love to read about Double Whammies in the 12th if you have any info. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. His response have a huge impact upon me. ILLUME ASTROLOGY: SYNASTRY- MOON IN THE HOUSES - Blogger I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. Juno in Synastry, Signs, and Houses: Your Soulmate and Marriage People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. Infatuation can't run this deep. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. Im afraid he would stifle me and kill my spirit from the inside out. I have known that this house related to karmic connection. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. (Waving). Never felt this way in my life. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. Some are just hung up on their exes. I also have a stellium of 5 planets in my 8th house so I tend to be highly intuitive already. It's strange that i always dream about him. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. From all levels! All we can do is hope for something good in the future! All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. But we fell in love, got divorced from our previous partners, came out at work, moved in together, got . Sometimes the experience in this house is painful other times it's purely magical. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. He could communicate with my soul because he could explained my secret desire without boundaries.I had erotic dreams about him a lot. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. We also have vertex conjuct Asc. ive seen it many times in others too. 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. There are other harsh aspects between our charts, but overall the more connective and important synastry points overrule the bad. If he truely loves you, he will sooner or later find his way back to you. Positive aspects and conjunctions between Venus' show that the two people view love in a very similar way. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. He told you that he is not in love with you. I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. I find myself wondering if it's happening because maybe I am picking up on him obsessing about it. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. It's true that when someone touches our soul in deep connection, they could teach us a lesson. The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. Glad that its OVER!! Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Even PRAY, and pray hard for them to LEAVE you, your sector, your spirit. On top of this, his Pluto is either square or conjunction my NN, Im pretty sure its the square. Can you tell me whats really going on here? I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. His Moon squares my NN. The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself.